by Rosemary
Reeves
Why can’t the poor manage money? Answer: It’s all in their heads.
When I was a
little girl living in the projects, my mother taught me that reading a good
book was the most wonderful thing in the world, so when I began my first day at
school I was excited to learn how to read and write. Mom never described mathematics in the same
magical way. I soon found out why. Numbers were merely functional. Math had a neutral purpose and was nowhere
near as interesting to me as a student in grammar school.
My family
was evicted from the projects after Mom got a job, which raised the family income
above the poverty level. Dad and Mom got
a house several blocks away after being deemed eligible for a no-money-down,
low-interest FHA mortgage. They still
struggled to pay their bills. Money, or
rather the lack of money, was the cause of many of an argument and the scourge
of our household. Words like “mortgage”
and “bills” caused anxiety, provoked outbursts and instilled an unhealthy
attitude toward money.
As a child
growing up in an environment where money was associated with everything
negative and bad, it was best to avoid the subject. There was also the belief within our family
that managing money beyond merely paying bills was solely the province of the
rich. I remember evenings where the
family gathered around the television to hear the nightly news. At some point in the news there would be a
report on the stock exchange. Dad would
often make some kind of joke or remark about the stock exchange being for “the
rich guys” and what does that have to do with average people? Likewise, when he read the newspaper, he
always skipped the money section and turned to the next page.
By the time
I reached 8th grade, I learned to hate mathematics with a
passion. That was unfortunate because
mathematics and money often go hand-in-hand.
But who could blame me? The students were constantly drilled and tested
on useless number problems such as calculating the speed of a train that
arrived in Montana from Utah at 4 pm. In
real life, no one but an engineer has to know the speed of a train. If a passenger needs to find out when his
train will arrive in Montana, all he has to do is look at the train
schedule.
One day the math teacher walked into the classroom and I felt the usual sense of dread, anticipating an hour of intolerable boredom and imaginary trains arriving in Montana. To my surprise, she stood at the head of the class and said, “Today, we’re going to do something different. I’m going to teach you how to write a check. You’ll need to know this when you are adults because you will have to pay bills.” For the first time, I felt excited about learning math.
One day the math teacher walked into the classroom and I felt the usual sense of dread, anticipating an hour of intolerable boredom and imaginary trains arriving in Montana. To my surprise, she stood at the head of the class and said, “Today, we’re going to do something different. I’m going to teach you how to write a check. You’ll need to know this when you are adults because you will have to pay bills.” For the first time, I felt excited about learning math.
For the next
several weeks, she taught us such things as how to open a bank account and
calculate its balance after deductions.
We learned how to pay a bill with a check and about bank penalties for
being overdrawn. She pointed out the
importance of knowing these things as we pay our rent or mortgage some
day. I was excited to learn it all,
because this was useful information that I would apply in real life. This was the magic of mathematics, the magic
of managing money.
In 8th
grade I had already made up my mind that I wanted to have my own apartment by
the time I reached eighteen. I wanted to
hug the teacher for showing me all this.
Besides helping me toward that goal, I also desperately hoped that being
taught how to manage money would save me from a life of financial struggle,
like my parents. I couldn’t learn from
them how to manage money but it was wonderful that I could learn it in school. Unfortunately, after a few weeks the teacher
went back to the same old uninspiring and useless method of teaching math. When I told her I wanted to learn more about
bank accounts, she replied that I had been taught all a working adult needs to
know to get by and it was time to move on to other things.
I was old
enough by now to realize that most of the people I encountered in everyday life
were middle-class and living a comfortable lifestyle. Since this was the majority, it occurred to
me that my mother and father must have made money mistakes along the way ─ big money
mistakes.
One of the
biggest mistakes they made was thinking certain aspects of money management
were only for the well-to-do. Earlier I
mentioned how Dad used to skip the money section of the newspaper. When I grew up, I did the same thing. I turned the page without even looking at it. That’s because it seemed like a foreign
language and on the television news they spoke this foreign language, babbling something
incomprehensible about the Dow Jones industrial average and NASDAQ. This was the part of the news that sounded
like babble because I didn’t understand a word of it. This was the part of the news where you got
up, walked into the kitchen and made yourself a snack.
The magic of
mathematics disappeared almost as quickly as it surfaced, as my grades in math
could attest. The teacher who opened my
eyes to the exciting world of managing money released me from the unhealthy way
of thinking about money passed down from my parents, only to shut the prison
cell once more and lock it for good.
